That’s all fine. I wrote the bits about male sexuality with my husband, so if I’m a misandrist then so is he. We’ve both been doing a ton of research on this subject (my take on female sexuality comes from an ongoing dialogue I’ve been having with hundreds of women for more than a year now), and I’m just laying out what we’ve been finding. I rarely mitigate my language to avoid offending people. It has its advantages and disadvantages.